The Nature of Woman

The Nature of Woman.‬

‪Our strength resides in our femininity, ‬
‪our courage in our vulnerability, ‬
‪our power in our flexibility, ‬
‪our beauty in the force and truth of our spirit. ‬

‪In the presence of our passion and our love we can heal worlds, we can forgive, we can inspire change, we can create and ignite movements that transcend time and space.‬

‪In our truth, we can nurture children, we can support man to increase his own magnificence, and we can nurture and empower the future generations to come.‬

‪We are alchemists of health, and we have the ability and privilege to love deeply.‬

‪We can nurse humanity into growth, we can feed our loved ones with nurturing meals of praise, of hope, of freedom, of care. ‬

‪We cradle in our arms the dreams of children.‬

‪And We have never been powerless, or victims. ‬

‪For some of us, Our resilience and strength transcends the musculature of a body, yet we are powerful beyond belief, ‬

‪We carry with grace and wisdom the wounds of our ancestors, of ourselves, of our fathers, of our mothers,‬

‪We surrender, and receive God within us every moment.‬

‪Our nature is not to compete with one another , but to nurture and support the unity in the diversity that we are.‬

‪We fight no war. For our mission is that of life, of love, of birth and rebirth.‬

‪We work to meet our own power with humility, to understand the inner storms that nature mirrors in our inner world.‬

‪We are Gods’ divine masterpiece, a work always in progress.‬

‪We are the subtle whispers of spirit. And hold a sacred space in the cave of our soul for the silent yet loud cry of the wounded warriors.‬

‪We mourn the loss of those who died, got lost, or perished in the lands of ignorance or injustice ‬

‪We grieve, we rejoice, we sing, we dance…and never give up on love.‬

‪We make mistakes, make amends, we pray, we work, we course correct, we have faith ‬

‪We realize that We are here to love,‬
‪That We are the custodians of the chalice of the feminine spirit, and That we are no lesser or holier than anything or anyone, ‬

‪We are the power of woman,‬
‪Of sensuality,‬
‪Of spirit ‬

‪We are here to co-create a kingdom that designs NEW destinies…‬

‪We are here to be free ‬

‪We are here to love.

‪”A wise woman wishes to be no one’s enemy; a wise woman refuses to be anyone’s victim”. Maya Angelou‬

‪I love you all, 
Yes all

Thank you ‬

‪Ivonne Delaflor ❤️🙏

Ps: Dedicated to my beloved daughter Alhia.


Dear one;

I used to believe that being all smiley, being a yes’er for others requests, rescuing people from their own demise or burdens, and that saying; “it’s ok”, “I agree with you”, even applaud you for “being nice” was “SPIRITUAL”.

And oh how far was I away from the TRUTH.

Which truth?

My truth!

The one that kept showing me the pendulum swinging back and forth as I kept photoshopping a reality of perfection, of

“I never get upset” kind of spirituality,

of “I should be nice kind of gig”

when the truth was that I was avoiding the deep well of truth, and thus gold, disguised as pain just to BE (DO) spiritual.

My spiritual awakening has been an unfolding, not a sudden strike of luck or enlightening moment after a total black out

I have been in an unwavering commitment to self realization, even stronger than my commitment to personal relationships ( hence Two divorces) since the age 12 unknowingly, and since the age of 17 committedly.

I’ve very slowly ( if you use time as measure) earned the right of every single ounce of light that many perceive from me and that I emanate from me ( IN-LIGHT-ME)

It hasn’t happened through once a week meditation

It hasn’t happened by going to a cave ( though I’m a cave (metaphorically wise) seeker) since being a Mother of three has a higher priority than being on a cave itself 

It hasn’t happened listening to audiobooks or a good inspirational book here or there

It hasn’t happened serving people once in a while 
Or a new program here or there 

It hasn’t happened going viral on YouTube, or paying ads on FB actually I have yet to explore that world 


This has and continues to unfold through simple daily practices ( DAILY), and disciplines like these;

1. DO/BE 
the work every single day ( no vacation, no “come on, it’s just once”)
this includes meditation, daily kriya practice, implementation of it, serving people… eating healthy, showing up fully, when?


it takes guts to be the light for others. Knowing that you will be projected as all sorts of ideologies and identities. You will be loved, you will be rejected, you will be sought for your mastery, and also will be judged for it as well. You will be the friend, the foe, the admired one and also the idol that falls.

Well you got to have the strength to put this temporary human insanity of seeking for approval outside of yourself aside and SHOW UP daily for yourself and those you serve, in spite of yourself and themselves as well.

You got to be brave to love and serve people and not care what they think of you and sometimes even of themselves at the same time

3. SAY NO 
to people, Times, places that you have outgrown, ( family, acquaintances, old friends) as they represent a reflection of you that you have evolved and that is no longer part of who you are. It will also be a disservice to them to continue carrying them on the shoulders of your memory when you no longer live in the same place as they expect you to.

Understand that You can’t keep bringing dead corpses into the experience of the now. However beautiful the memory will be.

Remember that closure is one of the highest forms of love

“A monk asked Kegon, “How does an enlightened one return to the ordinary world?” Kegon replied, “A broken mirror never reflects again; fallen flowers never go back to the old branches.”Koan

Yes! That thing you hide, that emotion you secretly feel, that rage, that pain, that grief…
stop blaming others for your shortcomings, your past, your present, your future, and for you great falls and take ownership of all of it, and all of you!

This is the KEY to AWAKENING… 
the gateway towards the liberation you seek and the womb where you will rebirth yourself anew again. In more simple terms this can be also called: TAKE a 100% response-ability for and of your creation every single day!

to be nice, to “have it all together” “to know it all” this has you bleed energy away, It has you trapped in your own pretty world of delusion and sending Your creative genius into a void where you find yourself repeating cycles, feeling envy, jealousy, judgment, lacking something, in need of competition, justifying why you blame others over and over again

of the marketing world, the magazine world, the social media world, the religious world, the “I should be like him/her/it world” and just BE YOU!!

Wait you can’t, because you have flaws? You have failed? You cry at night? You feel alone? You feel old, scared and have lost it all? So what?

Get out of the self prescribed hiding jail you have built for yourself, get out of the “who you should be script” and rewrite your history and story by allowing the pain of the dark to take you to the light within


My friend, my liberation, my encounter with moksha occurred yes, when I found

-God was the soulmate we all seek for ( sacred union within)

-When I had a near death experience ( many times, through miscarriages, divorce, physical death, etc) where I found myself experiencing daily life with pain, in every single ounce of me, and making a daily choice to stand up again and again, and keep loving and serving, no matter what.

But most importantly

-When I stopped lying to myself, running from the dark and Instead I walked through it, only to find out that the darkness in me was the uterus holding the light that wanted, through my power of CHOICE, to be born and be reborn through me!

“Every moment of light and dark is a miracle” Walt Whitman


I hope you are creating a beautiful Sunday filled with miracles.

Sending love your way all-ways
In whatever experience you are choosing to perceive and create life as you

I love you
Thank you


Life Mastery Mentor, Futurist, Rebirther

Committed to your sustainable transformation 🙏

PS: I’ll be seeing some of you tonight, as I will be offering a livestream, from the FUTURING NOW series at 7 PM PST ( Las Vegas Time) here in my personal FB page about:

“The future of darkness is light”

Gracias ☺️


Death, My Greatest Teacher

It was “NOT MY TURN”✨

SHE spoke to me softly, and RECEIVED me in her arms. I wanted to stay with her but she said;


HE showed me a world of PEACE. A world I thought I wanted to stay in with him but he said:

“You can’t, It is not your turn to BE HERE”

IT REVEALED itself as as a NEW world; one of cohesive harmony and coherent love. I wanted to live in IT. Yet IT said:

“NO, this is not IT, your HOME, and the peace you seek, is where your WORK is”

So I came back… from wanting to stay,
And I let go of the wanting to stay with him/it/her…

And as I also accepted that IT was not my turn,
I experienced THE TURN OF MY BEING, whose time to REBIRTH hath come.


Who is SHE?
Who is HIM?
Who is IT?

I was only 17, one month before the identity of “I” turned 18, when I met her/him/it.
I only knew it/him/her by the name I was told “back then”,
a name given to him/it/her by society, religions, and sacred scriptures promoting FEAR of life, through her/him/it.

But when I met her, I lost all fear
And when I saw him, I felt deep love

But most importantly, when I EXPERIENCED IT

I got to meet one of my greatest teachers:
“DEATH” that was her/his/its name…
who I met through a NEAR “DEATH” EXPERIENCE, you know?

One of those experiences that many called MIRACULOUS, just like every new day where we get the privilege to wake up, one more day in this planet, to receive the NEW day sun.

And why am I writing about this tonight?
And sharing this “IT” with you/me/she/him/us?

BE-cause tonight, as I was watching the stars, and a storm being formed in the beautiful white clouds above the desert sky….

I thought of how grateful I AM for the teachings and experiences that both DEATH, who REBIRTHED ME, and LIFE, who FIRST BIRTHED me, have given me so far…

And tonight, as I feel at peace and at HOME in the NOW…

I am filled with quiet tenderness, appreciation for everything, and grateful tears of recognition, that now know;

That DEATH teaches me daily to FULLY serve and LIVE…

and LIFE teaches me daily to LOVE….

“Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God”. John 3:3

Blessed Night or day dear friend wherever YOU are…

Blessed NOW

#TranscendentalRebirthing #Futuring #FuturingNow #SacredGeometry #TheGreatWork2_0

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“The Universe is seen, it can be learned about, it can be experienced and enjoyed. But God is unseen. He has to be inferred through His handiwork” Rig Veda

I love the vedas

I love the disciplines and practices that dissolve all ideals, old ideas and that allow the I AM to absorb itself deeper into the absolute abSOULute

Sometimes we use images

Sometimes thoughts

Sometimes music

Sometimes contrast

Sometimes polarity

Sometimes the reflection of another

Sometimes concepts

Sometimes words

Regardless of the methodology that consciousness uses to find itself deeper in it

We return home

Every moment

Every breath

As we recognize the transient

The futile nature of grasping to that which is permanence

And I AM, dissolved as pure am-ness

Finds itself at home with oneness mirroring, through diversity, the one itself

And in this reflection, we find

That there is no traveling

And no adventure greater than the one we find ourselves every moment journeying,

And spiraling the Self always higher, deeper and closer into the arms of God

I hope you are having a wonderful temporality

I know you are deeply within your soul, enjoying the home within you called the divine.

Happy Friday ( words)

Blessed now ( truth)

Deep love

Ivonne Delaflor

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